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ГостьЗдравствуйте! Олеся Сергеевна, Скажите пожалуйста, что делать если ребёнок постоянно капризничает?
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ГостьКапризы — это действия, которые лишены разумного основания, т.е. « Я так хочу и всё!!!». Они вызываются слабостью ребёнка и в определённой степени тоже выступают как форма самозащиты. Чаще всего это результат соглашательского поведения родителей, поддавшихся нажиму со стороны ребёнка, нередко ради своего спокойствия.
• Не предавайте большого значения упрямству и капризности.
• Примите к сведению приступ, но не очень волнуйтесь за ребёнка.
• Во время приступа оставайтесь рядом, дайте ему почувствовать, что вы его понимаете.
• Не пытайтесь в это время что-либо внушать своему ребёнку — это бесполезно.
• Ругань не имеет смысла, шлепки ещё сильнее его возбуждают.
• Будьте в поведении с ребёнком настойчивы, если сказали «нет», оставайтесь и дальше при этом мнении.
• Не сдавайтесь даже тогда, когда приступ ребёнка протекает в общественном местеИстеричность и капризность требует зрителей, не прибегайте к помощи посторонних: «Посмотрите, какая плохая девочка, ай-яй-яй!». Ребёнку только этого и нужно. Постарайтесь схитрить: «Ох, какая у меня есть интересная игрушка (книжка, штучка)!». Подобные отвлекающие манёвры заинтересуют капризулю и он успокоится.
Исключите из арсенала грубый тон, резкость, стремление «Сломить силой авторитета». Спокойный тон общения, без раздражительности быстрее помогут успокоить ребёнка.
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